
Cathy Glass writes memoirs of her experiences with being a foster carer. In finding Stevie, we learn about the dangers and privileges of modern society and growing up today. Stevie is 14-years-old and gender fluid, meaning he doesn’t quite identify with being male nor female. Stevie and his two younger siblings were brought up by their biological grandparents, as their mother was in prison. But, no longer able to cope with Stevie’s behaviour, he was placed in foster care. We follow Cathy as she, again, learns the ups and downs of being a foster carer, for, she’s pushed to her limits. Can she help Stevie, or will she feel like a failure?
There is more to the story, but, to avoid spoilers I’ll leave it at that. To me, a memoir featuring gender fluidity, from an outsiders perspective, seemed interesting. I’m not gender fluid myself, yet, I liked the way this was handled. We follow Cathy as she discovers the meaning of gender fluid and what this means for Stevie. As I said, there is more to Stevie, and as we are slowly introduced to the real matter, Stevie’s gender quickly becomes less important, and we get to know Stevie as a person.
There are also issues around his family’s acceptance of his identity, this, as a true account, adds an interesting dynamic, as we learn of his grandparents initial reaction to his coming out.
There is some discriminatory language aimed at gay and trans* people, most of this is challenged or acknowledge, with the exception of the word ‘tranny’. This may cause you to dislike this book, but it is pretty…real.
I can see how this book could be difficult to read, as with most Cathy Glass memoirs, so read this with caution, if you are sensitive to difficult topics.
I really enjoyed this newest instalment of Cathy Glass.If you do like memoirs, I completely recommend Cathy Glass.
As most Cathy Glass memoirs, finding Stevie opens a conversation about today’s society and our variable young people. If you do read this, please leave a comment about what you thought, I’m interested in your opinions. Thank you.
- Rating: 4 stars
- Setting: England
- Publisher: Harper Element
- Publication date: February 2019
- Pages: 306
- Price: £8.99
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ISBN: 9780008324292
